For the first time in their lives our boys are less well known then their dad. I know that may sound odd, but they were born in a town of 7,000 and with a super busy dad we have made it a point to get out and about and participate in as many town events as possible. Since they have a very social mama our boys were able to meet a broad range of people and since they are quick to make friends the social circle stretched pretty broadly. Top this with having been in the same small elementary school for their whole lives where teachers care about the kids and get to know them and well you get the point.
Since our move and our insanely busy schedule we have met A LOT of people and yet now that we live in a larger area there are A LOT more to meet! The college has worked hard to promote the change in football with not only a press conference, newpaper and blog blitz, but a tv commercial. These things have given the public a sense of comfort in knowing who we are, but it is obviously one sided. One thing we are not quite used to is people approaching our boys and speaking to them, and knowing their names. One of our kiddos has become pretty shy and I think for him in particular it is nerve wrecking when he has no idea who is speaking to him and yet they seem to know a lot about him.
One thing I will say about being in the south is that I have no doubt those who choose to speak to our boys are doing so only to be kind and welcoming. They always approach them when they are with me and always have a kind word to say.
As a parent I've tried to help my kids maneuver this situation with grace and caution. Of course we have talked extensively about stranger danger. We have also talked about how everything we say and every way we act represents our family and our college. The boys know to extend a firm hand shake, smile and respond while looking someone in the eye. They also know that beyond a hello they don't need to answer any questions they don't want to and can ask to be excused from the conversation. We are blessed that our President is a former pastors kid. He's been so sensitive to help make sure the boys are comfortable in all public situations even going to far as to clean out the tree house in his back yard so they would have a "hide out" during certain events.
As our kiddos get older I think this is a subject I am increasingly sensitive to. Our current stadium has a press box we can hang out in if needed and we have chosen to live slightly more removed from campus then previously. I'm hoping to help create a sense of normalcy outside of college life, but still make sure we support our coach in every way we can.